Hi Everyone!!! I have few friends who often face a question that, “Whom should they listen to? Who can tell them how to achieve their goals in life?”, I have a simple answer “Listen to Yourself” because no one knows you or your goals or your situations better than you yourself. There may be a hundred people to give you suggestions, more hundred to comment on you and many more to criticize you, but if you think your decision is right according to your situation then go with your decision. Others might understand your situation but they may not feel the same for that situation as they are not facing it. You should be clear with your goals in life, your situations, your strengths and your weaknesses, because only these things can help you take a proper decision. To achieve your goals you should use your strengths to overcome your weakness according to the situation in front of you. During this, many will criticize your decision or comment on your ability or suggest you few more points to focus on, take all those in a positive way and use it to develop your decision to have a more stronger impact in the outcome. There are many who fear that, “What others will think and say?” “What if they make fun of me in front of others?”, but let me tell you the one who have decided to make fun of you or blame you wrong will always do the same irrespective of the fact that whether you stood with your decision or you didn't. People will always think the way they want to, no matter what. Suppose, if a person thinks wrong about you and you try to explain to that person that, you didn't mean it in that way then they might say it's your excuse, as they don't want to change their perception about you. If that person wanted to change his perception then he would have discussed with you about it before confirming his perception. The one who really cares for you would always come and discuss with you and the one who just wants to blame or criticize you will always believe in his or her perception. What others think about you doesn't matter, the only thing that matters in the end is the outcome of the decisions you have taken. Basically, you have to understand your situation which will help you to use your strengths to overcome your weakness and achieve the goals of life. So, just “Listen to Yourself” because you know yourself much better than anyone else. Hope you enjoyed reading this post on listening to yourself. Do like, comment and share this post. Also, do let me know your views in the comments below. Thank you #VivekPanicker #VivekBlog #Blog #WanderingMinds #FreeMinds #Wandering #Thoughts #ListenToYourself #YourDecisions #FacingChallenges #Yourself #LearningFromLife #LifeGoals
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